It was a nice international group.
Hans said some theoretical stuf about boundaries and why we cope life better when we have ’em.
And we talked a bit about the effects of parental examples And how BDSM can make us more ready to wrestle a bit with boundaries in a fun way. “But I want my boundaries crossed!…”
We talked some about being introverted or being extraverted and what that might mean for relationships and relationship management 😉
We meandered into relationships some more, for instance about relationships with people who are not willing to take your boundaries into account. And we spoke about Red Flags in relationships for bot Tops aand Bottoms (and how it sometimes is good to remember that BDSM-relationships do have this reality layer under the… “topping”)
The ‘Gateau-model of BDSM-relations’
every topping needs a good cake of equality underneathHans
And then we parlavered a bit about Covid and the toll it takes on our social lives in different cities in Europe (since we were a really international group)