Open conversations and practical insights with invited speakers and experts. Live on Zoom, recordings on the website and in person at select events.
60+ Talks since 2020.
Hosted by Hans & Adalberto.
Join our 7th Season!
This season continues exploring the fascinating world of kink, fetish, and BDSM with our well-known respect, fun and open-mindedness. And with some great guests!
Whether you’re brand-new or want to deepen your understanding, these Talks are for YOU.
✅ Practical knowledge in focused sessions
✅ Insightful discussions
✅ A safe, judgment-free space
A bit of history: since May 2020, Adalberto and Hans have hosted 55+ lighthearted but serious talks for open-minded folks looking to spice up their kinky life, learn new things and share experiences. With invited experts, community experts and yourself! Our values: humor, heart, lust, respect. And a bit tongue in cheek 😉
We welcome everyone who vibes with our content and is cool with being around kinky gay men.
Hans & Adalberto
teaching a live
masterclass at Darklands
Anybody trying to learn sex from porn or romance from Disney: know in advance that you are badly informed!
Hans West
It’s amazing to have possibilities to talk about the taboos of the century during the KinkyTalks.
David
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Reports of our latest talks:
- 2026-05-06 ~ Kinky Talks 63~ Titleholders: who do they really represent?
- 2026-03-31 ~ Kinky Talks 62~ Sober & Kinky?
- 2025-11-12 ~ Kinky Talks 61 ~ Chastity
- 2025-09-10 ~ Kinky Talks 60 ~ Spot -Structured Power Exchange-
- 2025-06-11 ~ Kinky Talks 58 ~ The art of power exchange and impact play
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Who we are
Adalberto and Hans are both – each in their own way – kinksters and we met at the end of 2019 at café Prik in Amsterdam, around the idea to launch a Miss Rubber Netherlands title. We got to talk about how things that can be so hot and juicy sometimes turn so nasty because of a lack of knowledge. And we both felt that we needed to do something about that (within limits). Soon the pandemic hit, and online meetings became a daily routine.
That’s how the Kinky Talks were born: online talks without convictions, clever, together… because the bubble knows more and we can all help each other to get things…
erhmm NOT so straight 😉 #kink
Adalberto
Nice guy with a kinky mind
Adalberto is an engaged kinkster with an inquisitive mind. He was Mister Rubber Netherlands and Mister International Rubber 2020. Someone you can come to with questions.
Hans West
Kink Aware Therapist, open-minded professional and also a nice guy. Into kink and BDSM since his prepuberty.
Hans teaches Kinky Techniques to interested people and teaches about fetish and BDSM to students and practitioners.
I do not like to be silenced, but I’m a good listener.
Specs:
Respect
We don’t believe in “telling how yo should…” and we don’t believe that it is very helpful to be told.
Respect is one of the main ‘rules’ in our online gatherings.
Fun
If you can’t laugh, you can’t cry…
We won’t hesitate to talk about serious stuff, so we hope to have a bit of respectful fun together. Not at the cost of anyone but because feelings are important on both sides.
Open-minded
Amongst the two of us, there is not much that we did not try, did not do, did not enjoy ourselves.
No need for shame (with both a rather strong aversion to shaming).
Responsible
If you think things thru and when you got your shit sorted, and if you are mindful about your self… there is no reason to not mindlessly let yourself enjoy the moment.
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