2021-10-06 ~ Kinky Talks 25: The Psychology of kinks

“Wickedness” is a myth invented by ‘good people’ to account for that curious attractiveness of ‘others’. Oscar Wilde (quotes by me) In this talk, we’re going to dive into the kinky mind and hear about the most recent research from a psychological perspective on people who practice kinks. We will be guided by Karina to betterContinue reading “2021-10-06 ~ Kinky Talks 25: The Psychology of kinks”

2021-09-04 ~ Kinky Talks 24: From Sex to Chems and Back

Sex and Drugs and Rock and Roll (or any other kind of music) have always drawn toward each other. And rightly so! Especially for people who like kicks and sensations and who like to party and play, they will have their encounters with drugs (and alcohol is a drug too). And there is a lotContinue reading “2021-09-04 ~ Kinky Talks 24: From Sex to Chems and Back”

2021-08-04 ~ Kinky Talks 23: Puppies and their bone(r)s

Puppies and their bone(r)s Pups Play!Yet puppy-play is a serious fetish, these days The world of pupies is far away from our own ‘normal’ world for a lot of us kinksters. But in the last years this kink is really booming. And the playfulness of this kink is be really appealing. Docile dogs, beauty-dogs, brattyContinue reading “2021-08-04 ~ Kinky Talks 23: Puppies and their bone(r)s”

2021-07-07 ~ Kinky Talks 22: A deep dive into sub space…

There are a lot of ideas and opinions about subspace. It has to do with pain it has to do with humiliation, it has to do with role-play, it’s all about endorphins in the brain et cetera et cetera. Let’s be clear, there is no final answer yet in science for it simply has notContinue reading “2021-07-07 ~ Kinky Talks 22: A deep dive into sub space…”

2021-06-16 ~ Kinky Talks 21: Monster toys, Monster fun? (Karin – Mr Provios)

We feel that we are not stretching it when we both think we can hope for a really deep discussion with a hole lot of assploration. We think that, when we are be prepared well for some really in depth discussion about  ways to go the distance we perhaps know how to go where noContinue reading “2021-06-16 ~ Kinky Talks 21: Monster toys, Monster fun? (Karin – Mr Provios)”

2021-05-05 ~ Kinky Talks 19: The world of gimps and drones

KinkyTalks 19 Wednesday, 5th of May: 20:00 – 21:15 (Amsterdam time!) The world of gimps and drones (by Adalberto & Hans) People choke on the thought of being a gimp 😉 The world of gimps and drones: imagine you’d be in rubber enclosure being (ab)used or being enjoyed visually. Gear, rules, differences, masks, anonymity andContinue reading “2021-05-05 ~ Kinky Talks 19: The world of gimps and drones”

2021-04-14 ~ Kinky Talks 18: Is more extreme more fun?

KinkyTalks 18 Wednesday, 14th of April: 20:00 – 21:15 Is more extreme more fun? (by Adalberto & Hans) People do view us kinksters as being a bit extreme sometimes. Does that have to do with ‘the media’ portraying us as ‘extreme’ so they can offer the readers a nice and voyeuristic view (and then distanceContinue reading “2021-04-14 ~ Kinky Talks 18: Is more extreme more fun?”

2021-03-24 ~ Kinky Talks 17: What makes a good Dominant?

Hans and Johnny Iron start up this evening with some basic thoughts about the question “What makes a good Dominant?”Of course, we can only scratch the surface in an introduction but we hope for a fruitful discussion where we hope to learn from each other. Let’s XXXperience a bit of Dominant intervision together, maybe? AmongstContinue reading “2021-03-24 ~ Kinky Talks 17: What makes a good Dominant?”

2021-03-03 ~ Kinky Talks 16: Happy Coronaversary!

Interesting Links #HONEYIAMGOOD:https://youtu.be/kKpHJL1L1Ps Kan het nog gekker? met Rachèl BeauJolie – Afl. 1 https://www.facebook.com/events/170080621428717/ International Gay Fetish Photo Competition (vote here):https://morepixx.com/vote-here-2/ SLFC’s Fetish Short Film Festival 2021:https://fb.me/e/19Vjq7IZ3 SLFC’s Fetish Short Film Festival 2021 – Online https://www.facebook.com/events/460663091645509/ SLFC’s video’s wil be seen at:https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCUHhMY2OFASOFJeR7B0gEMQ “Gimme, gimme, gimme a vaccine after midnight.Won’t somebody help me chase the COVIDContinue reading “2021-03-03 ~ Kinky Talks 16: Happy Coronaversary!”

2021-02-10 ~ Kinky Talks 15: Dark Eros: Tantra and BDSM

By Jakey and Viktor https://twitter.com/KinksterTantric”Tantrickinkster” Jakey Tay is a Tantric Kinkster combining Kinky, Queer and Spiritual elements and has investigated Tantra on different levels.He can be found on:Twitter: KinksterTantricInstagram: TantricKinkster He is Queer, Kinky and Spiritual. A 21st century hippie, spreading love and positivity (as an old hippy Hans loooves the hippies of these days).Continue reading “2021-02-10 ~ Kinky Talks 15: Dark Eros: Tantra and BDSM”

2021-01-21(!) ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?

Mind you: thursday 21th! We are both pretty happy with Biden so we want to look at his inauguration ourselves on Wednesday the 20th. Fosta/sesta is (ab)used to search in the most unreasonable places for “all those poor abused women” (works great during elections, by the way) but is then abused for taking the economicContinue reading “2021-01-21(!) ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?”

2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)

OK, I don’t think that there was a year in my lifetime where we were in agreement that we would be glad it’s over. Well, at least it is coming to an end.One thing we can all agree on is that this year has as much minutes as the last but that somehow our perceptionContinue reading “2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)”

2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP

There is still a lot of misunderstanding about HIV. The virus is still the same (well… actually not quite, but that’s not the point here). But treatment possibilities have changed dramatically since the ’80s an d ’90s Stephan and Snorella are taking us through the changes since then, and help us see what those changesContinue reading “2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP”

2020-11-18 ~ Kinky Talks 11: How to avoid Drama!

Draaaamaaaa! (in the scene and in our sex lives) Some people loooove the drama. Most of us don’t.Especially in hindsight we often thoroughly detest the drama we got sucked into (because of course, we have nothing to do with the drama that somehow came about without our knowledge and without any involvement of our selves…Continue reading “2020-11-18 ~ Kinky Talks 11: How to avoid Drama!”

2020-10-28 ~ Kinky Talks 10: Leather! (guest: current Mr Leather NL)

Stephan is going to talk with us about leather of course, but more about the leather society. In his introduction, he will touch on the following subjects: open relationships, sex during Corona, and how this is highlighting the lack of playrooms and how you discover new things together? We hope to see you all thereContinue reading “2020-10-28 ~ Kinky Talks 10: Leather! (guest: current Mr Leather NL)”

2020-09-16 ~ Kinky Talks 08: “Flirt your kink” (How to say “Yes”?)

Consensual play is a lot about communication, asking, agreeing, and saying “no”, when needed. So a lot of the talk about “consent” is about exactly this: “how to say NO”…  That’s all good, but we’d rather hear you say “yes”, and make sure we let the play go and stay in a space we enjoy? SoContinue reading “2020-09-16 ~ Kinky Talks 08: “Flirt your kink” (How to say “Yes”?)”

2020-08-26 ~ Kinky Talks 07: “The Rubber Edition” (Adalberto and guests!)

This time a lighter topic: our favourite material, latex, will be in the spotlight!!! We are very excited to have many special guests joining us from all over the globe: from Florida to Amsterdam, via Italy and Denmark, and more! Wanna learn the best latex care tips? Talk about the latest trends in rubber outfits?Continue reading “2020-08-26 ~ Kinky Talks 07: “The Rubber Edition” (Adalberto and guests!)”

2020-08-12 ~ Kinky Talks 06: Our sex-life and COVID

COVID-19 has clearly had an impact on our sex lives. Maybe limited for those in monogamous relationships, but definitely, a big impact for those among us who (used to) share their sexual life with multiple partners. Either with regular buddies or with occasional hook-ups. Kinksters often talk about “risk-aware practices”. Can COVID be dealt withContinue reading “2020-08-12 ~ Kinky Talks 06: Our sex-life and COVID”

2020-07-29 ~ Kinky Talks 05: “The second closet”: aggression of your partner

It is the reason that some of us are hiding again: physical or psychological aggression of the partner…and we don’t want to spill the beans. Dirty laundry is not easy to communicate to our friends and especially when our partner is really remorseful about roughing you up in a nonconsensual way (even tho it happened before),Continue reading “2020-07-29 ~ Kinky Talks 05: “The second closet”: aggression of your partner”

2020-07-15 ~ Kinky Talks 04: Consent: a need or a hindrance?

Oops… I made a mistake in the email… I SHOULD have sent you to:2020-10-07 ~ Kinky Talks! Dom space, sub Space (guest: Spot) Below is the old talk we did earlier Consent is a hot topic these days… and I mean that in the sense of heated discussions (not so much hot sex anymore). Where ‘consent’Continue reading “2020-07-15 ~ Kinky Talks 04: Consent: a need or a hindrance?”

2020-06-20-24 ~ Kinky Talks 03: Long term Kinky Relationships?

Long term Relationships – BDSM relationships… Is it desirable? We do sometimes long for long-term steady relationships…We sometimes want hot ‘n steamy relationships…Does that exclude each other? Can we have both? Can we have all three? Long-term sweet love? Hot love? Conquering love? And is this the same for kinksters into BDSM as it isContinue reading “2020-06-20-24 ~ Kinky Talks 03: Long term Kinky Relationships?”