2022-08-10 ~ Kinky Talks 35: Hans – “Whipping with Pride!”

We know Hans as a coach and we’ve talked about the fact that he does workshops on different BDSM techniques but we did not talk much about that up till now. That is going to change on the 10th because he will be giving the workshops on the 4th (that day that you would expectContinue reading “2022-08-10 ~ Kinky Talks 35: Hans – “Whipping with Pride!””

2022-07-06 ~ Kinky Talks 34: Kinks and Spirituality

We’ll be talking about the scientific ideas of Mirco Costacurta. He’s our guest: Mirco is a PhD, student in Social Science at the University of Padua (Italy). Sex-positive and LGBT+ activist for Arcigay with inside knowledge about Kink and BDSM Mirco is a student investigating the world of kink. He investigated kinks and we areContinue reading “2022-07-06 ~ Kinky Talks 34: Kinks and Spirituality”

2022-06-01 ~ Kinky Talks 33: Longing Relationships… (long term, long distance)

We’ll be talking about relationships, especially “long” is the keyword for this discussion: long-term (kinky) relationships, long-distance relationships… Luckily we have guests with practical knowledge about these subjects so we are happy to invite Spot and Pupsapphire to answer questions from their personal viewpoints. Let’s talk about those who are longing for ‘long-relationships’ and howContinue reading “2022-06-01 ~ Kinky Talks 33: Longing Relationships… (long term, long distance)”

2022-05-06 ~ Kinky Talks 32: Darklands Fr.6pm – KinkyTalks Live

After more than 30 successful online events, Hans & Adalberto bring their Kinky Talks Live to Darklands! Kinky Talks Live!For both newbies and seasoned kinksters, they will discuss the psychology of kinks and our search for ‘extremes’, taking and giving consent and fun, and fun versus fun-ctional substance use & kinky sex. We love yourContinue reading “2022-05-06 ~ Kinky Talks 32: Darklands Fr.6pm – KinkyTalks Live”

2022-04-06 ~ Kinky Talks 31: Darkrooms-Lightrooms… Fetish photographers talk

We will be talking with D81 en PAN about Fetish Photography… (you can find them on Instagram: @d81photos (www.d81photos.com) & @thedarksideof_pan (www.gianlucapanareo.com/thedarksideofpan) If you have questions let us know…Registration is until 4 pm, and the email with the link will be sent by 7 pm at the latest. We are not sure if -in thisContinue reading “2022-04-06 ~ Kinky Talks 31: Darkrooms-Lightrooms… Fetish photographers talk”

2022-01-05 ~ Kinky Talks 28: Your bucket and f*ck-it lists for 2022

We might be more thriftily when writing our bucket-lists. We lived thru another year of social distance and most of us live. So let’s be proud of each other… Hindsight is 2020 2021 then is: “looking up the Arse?” Hans, he’ll be telling a bit about new years resolutions and trying to prevent that inContinue reading “2022-01-05 ~ Kinky Talks 28: Your bucket and f*ck-it lists for 2022”

2021-10-06 ~ Kinky Talks 25: The Psychology of kinks

“Wickedness” is a myth invented by ‘good people’ to account for that curious attractiveness of ‘others’. Oscar Wilde (quotes by me) In this talk, we’re going to dive into the kinky mind and hear about the most recent research from a psychological perspective on people who practice kinks. We will be guided by Karina to betterContinue reading “2021-10-06 ~ Kinky Talks 25: The Psychology of kinks”

2021-09-04 ~ Kinky Talks 24: From Sex to Chems and Back

Sex and Drugs and Rock and Roll (or any other kind of music) have always drawn toward each other. And rightly so! Especially for people who like kicks and sensations and who like to party and play, they will have their encounters with drugs (and alcohol is a drug too). And there is a lotContinue reading “2021-09-04 ~ Kinky Talks 24: From Sex to Chems and Back”

2021-08-04 ~ Kinky Talks 23: Puppies and their bone(r)s

Puppies and their bone(r)s Pups Play!Yet puppy-play is a serious fetish, these days The world of pupies is far away from our own ‘normal’ world for a lot of us kinksters. But in the last years this kink is really booming. And the playfulness of this kink is be really appealing. Docile dogs, beauty-dogs, brattyContinue reading “2021-08-04 ~ Kinky Talks 23: Puppies and their bone(r)s”

2021-07-07 ~ Kinky Talks 22: A deep dive into sub space…

There are a lot of ideas and opinions about subspace. It has to do with pain it has to do with humiliation, it has to do with role-play, it’s all about endorphins in the brain et cetera et cetera. Let’s be clear, there is no final answer yet in science for it simply has notContinue reading “2021-07-07 ~ Kinky Talks 22: A deep dive into sub space…”

2021-06-16 ~ Kinky Talks 21: Monster toys, Monster fun? (Karin – Mr Provios)

We feel that we are not stretching it when we both think we can hope for a really deep discussion with a hole lot of assploration. We think that, when we are be prepared well for some really in depth discussion about  ways to go the distance we perhaps know how to go where noContinue reading “2021-06-16 ~ Kinky Talks 21: Monster toys, Monster fun? (Karin – Mr Provios)”

2021-05-05 ~ Kinky Talks 19: The world of gimps and drones

KinkyTalks 19 Wednesday, 5th of May: 20:00 – 21:15 (Amsterdam time!) The world of gimps and drones (by Adalberto & Hans) People choke on the thought of being a gimp 😉 The world of gimps and drones: imagine you’d be in rubber enclosure being (ab)used or being enjoyed visually. Gear, rules, differences, masks, anonymity andContinue reading “2021-05-05 ~ Kinky Talks 19: The world of gimps and drones”

2021-04-14 ~ Kinky Talks 18: Is more extreme more fun?

KinkyTalks 18 Wednesday, 14th of April: 20:00 – 21:15 Is more extreme more fun? (by Adalberto & Hans) People do view us kinksters as being a bit extreme sometimes. Does that have to do with ‘the media’ portraying us as ‘extreme’ so they can offer the readers a nice and voyeuristic view (and then distanceContinue reading “2021-04-14 ~ Kinky Talks 18: Is more extreme more fun?”

2021-03-24 ~ Kinky Talks 17: What makes a good Dominant?

Hans and Johnny Iron start up this evening with some basic thoughts about the question “What makes a good Dominant?”Of course, we can only scratch the surface in an introduction but we hope for a fruitful discussion where we hope to learn from each other. Let’s XXXperience a bit of Dominant intervision together, maybe? AmongstContinue reading “2021-03-24 ~ Kinky Talks 17: What makes a good Dominant?”

2021-03-03 ~ Kinky Talks 16: Happy Coronaversary!

Interesting Links #HONEYIAMGOOD:https://youtu.be/kKpHJL1L1Ps Kan het nog gekker? met Rachèl BeauJolie – Afl. 1 https://www.facebook.com/events/170080621428717/ International Gay Fetish Photo Competition (vote here):https://morepixx.com/vote-here-2/ SLFC’s Fetish Short Film Festival 2021:https://fb.me/e/19Vjq7IZ3 SLFC’s Fetish Short Film Festival 2021 – Online https://www.facebook.com/events/460663091645509/ SLFC’s video’s wil be seen at:https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCUHhMY2OFASOFJeR7B0gEMQ “Gimme, gimme, gimme a vaccine after midnight.Won’t somebody help me chase the COVIDContinue reading “2021-03-03 ~ Kinky Talks 16: Happy Coronaversary!”

2021-02-10 ~ Kinky Talks 15: Dark Eros: Tantra and BDSM

By Jakey and Viktor https://twitter.com/KinksterTantric”Tantrickinkster” Jakey Tay is a Tantric Kinkster combining Kinky, Queer and Spiritual elements and has investigated Tantra on different levels.He can be found on:Twitter: KinksterTantricInstagram: TantricKinkster He is Queer, Kinky and Spiritual. A 21st century hippie, spreading love and positivity (as an old hippy Hans loooves the hippies of these days).Continue reading “2021-02-10 ~ Kinky Talks 15: Dark Eros: Tantra and BDSM”

2021-01-21(!) ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?

Mind you: thursday 21th! We are both pretty happy with Biden so we want to look at his inauguration ourselves on Wednesday the 20th. Fosta/sesta is (ab)used to search in the most unreasonable places for “all those poor abused women” (works great during elections, by the way) but is then abused for taking the economicContinue reading “2021-01-21(!) ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?”

2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)

OK, I don’t think that there was a year in my lifetime where we were in agreement that we would be glad it’s over. Well, at least it is coming to an end.One thing we can all agree on is that this year has as much minutes as the last but that somehow our perceptionContinue reading “2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)”

2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP

There is still a lot of misunderstanding about HIV. The virus is still the same (well… actually not quite, but that’s not the point here). But treatment possibilities have changed dramatically since the ’80s an d ’90s Stephan and Snorella are taking us through the changes since then, and help us see what those changesContinue reading “2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP”

2020-11-18 ~ Kinky Talks 11: How to avoid Drama!

Draaaamaaaa! (in the scene and in our sex lives) Some people loooove the drama. Most of us don’t.Especially in hindsight we often thoroughly detest the drama we got sucked into (because of course, we have nothing to do with the drama that somehow came about without our knowledge and without any involvement of our selves…Continue reading “2020-11-18 ~ Kinky Talks 11: How to avoid Drama!”