Kinky Talks blog

Adalberto and Hans talk about fun, and also hard subjects from the scene
(sometimes tongue in cheek, sometimes really serious)

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2022-10-12 ~ Kinky Talks 37: Community: What’s in a name?

“Community”: A community is a social unit (a group of living things) with commonality such as place, norms, religion, values, customs, or identity. Communities may share a sense of place situated in a given geographical area (e.g. a country, village, town, or neighbourhood) or in virtual space through communication platforms. Durable good relations that extend beyond immediate genealogical ties also define a sense of community, important toContinue reading “2022-10-12 ~ Kinky Talks 37: Community: What’s in a name?”

MonkeyPox and Pride

Monkeypox is a disease from a virus that is spread by rubbing skin to skin, or by puss or infected skin cells that still lay around somewhere after they were rubbed off the tiny scabs from former lesions. Not everybody has symptoms. So basically you’re not sure if you are infected. So if we meetContinue reading “MonkeyPox and Pride”

2022-07-06 ~ Kinky Talks 34: Kinks and Spirituality

We were talking about the scientific ideas of Mirco Costacurta. He’s our guest: Mirco is a PhD, student in Social Science at the University of Padua (Italy). Sex-positive and LGBT+ activist for Arcigay with inside knowledge about Kink and BDSM

2022-05-06 ~ Kinky Talks 32: Darklands Fr.6pm – KinkyTalks Live

After more than 30 successful online events, Hans & Adalberto bring their Kinky Talks Live to Darklands! Kinky Talks Live!For both newbies and seasoned kinksters, they will discuss the psychology of kinks and our search for ‘extremes’, taking and giving consent and fun, and fun versus fun-ctional substance use & kinky sex.

2022-02-02 ~ Kinky Talks 29: Polyamory in Practice

Polyamory sounds nice… but how do you put that into practice. How do you do poly? Hans will say a few things about poly. While Juan and Alex will tell us about the reality of being in a polyamorous relationship. Poly is like mono…but with a few extra balls in the playing field Hans

2021-12-01 ~ Kinky Talks 27: HIV – PrEP – U=U and more

On World AIDS day 2021 we thought it was important to discuss not so much a sexy subject, but a sex subject We think this is the date And of course, HIV does not mean AIDS anymore. But there is a lot to be said about sex and HIV. First of all: #getfuckingtested (Bentley, 2021)

2021-05-05 ~ Kinky Talks 19: The world of gimps and drones

The world of gimps and drones: imagine you’d be in rubber enclosure being (ab)used or being enjoyed visually. Gear, rules, differences, masks, anonymity and freedom in rubber restriction… there is so much to know. So let’s ask the specialists: Jack Hellwing and Johnny Iron! We’ll ask them to explain to us the various different formsContinue reading “2021-05-05 ~ Kinky Talks 19: The world of gimps and drones”

2021-03-24 ~ Kinky Talks 17: What makes a good Dominant?

After an annoying start due to technical zoom sh#t, Hans West and Johnny Iron started this evening up with some basic thoughts about the question “What makes a good Dominant?” And not so much the obvious “things”, the visible and the ‘twitterable’, but rather the person underneath the Dom. The relationship underneath the D/s.

2021-03-03 ~ Kinky Talks 16: Happy Coronaversary!

Mostly we talked about how our perspective has changed because of Covid, how our attention shifted from big raves to smaller parties where at least you are able to meet people. “Gimme, gimme, gimme a vaccine after midnight. Won’t somebody help me chase the COVID away” Adalberto

2021-01-21 ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?

We got a cool panel of people to talk about why their favourite platforms We started with the question where our first platforms were. And some of us our talk with our ‘confessions’ about what basically our 1st platforms in the world of kink were (sometimes fresh, so for some of us almost pre-internet). WhereContinue reading “2021-01-21 ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?”

2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP

Today we had Stephan Metzlar-Rudolph Mr. Leather NL 2020 and Snorella WC, Ambassador for the AIDS Healthcare Foundation. There is still a lot of misunderstanding about HIV. The virus is still the same (well… actually not quite, but that’s not the point here). But treatment possibilities have changed dramatically since the ’80s and ’90s withContinue reading “2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP”

2020-10-28 ~ Kinky Talks 10: Leather! (guest: Stephan – Mr Leather NL)

Stephan was talking about the ways Covid influenced his life as a regular clubber and darkroom enthusiast, being “jailed at home”. When you are in an open relationship, you didn’t need to get your sexual kicks at home.Now, you do have to discover new things together.Stephan talked about how it created a nearness and aContinue reading “2020-10-28 ~ Kinky Talks 10: Leather! (guest: Stephan – Mr Leather NL)”

2020-10-07 ~ Kinky Talks 09: Dom space, sub Space (guest: Spot)

This date we had a special guest: Spot (on instagram: alpha_switch_spot)And he did talk a lot about D/s relationships and subjects like: collars and D/s households, the differences between TPE vs PPEP, about protocols and its meanings, his ideas about subspace and headspace and impact play.Also joining us was Karina Lins who wrote “Samtalen omContinue reading “2020-10-07 ~ Kinky Talks 09: Dom space, sub Space (guest: Spot)”

2020-06-24 ~ Long term Kinky Relationships? 003

A bit more local than last time: Dutchies, Italians and Germans 😀Hans explained some ideas about relationship phases and things you might want to look into when one decides to have: a long term relation, a relation as a fetishist, a power exchange relationship, or a longterm power-exchange relationship and terminology from the world ofContinue reading “2020-06-24 ~ Long term Kinky Relationships? 003”

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