2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)

OK, I don’t think that there was a year in my lifetime where we were in agreement that we would be glad it’s over. Well, at least it is coming to an end.One thing we can all agree on is that this year has as much minutes as the last but that somehow our perceptionContinue reading “2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)”

2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP

There is still a lot of misunderstanding about HIV. The virus is still the same (well… actually not quite, but that’s not the point here). But treatment possibilities have changed dramatically since the ’80s an d ’90s Stephan and Snorella are taking us through the changes since then, and help us see what those changesContinue reading “2020-12-09 ~ Kinky Talks 12: Info on HIV and PrEP”

2020-11-18 ~ Kinky Talks 11: How to avoid Drama!

Draaaamaaaa! (in the scene and in our sex lives) Some people loooove the drama. Most of us don’t.Especially in hindsight we often thoroughly detest the drama we got sucked into (because of course, we have nothing to do with the drama that somehow came about without our knowledge and without any involvement of our selves…Continue reading “2020-11-18 ~ Kinky Talks 11: How to avoid Drama!”

2020-10-28 ~ Kinky Talks 10: Leather! (guest: current Mr Leather NL)

Stephan is going to talk with us about leather of course, but more about the leather society. In his introduction, he will touch on the following subjects: open relationships, sex during Corona, and how this is highlighting the lack of playrooms and how you discover new things together? We hope to see you all thereContinue reading “2020-10-28 ~ Kinky Talks 10: Leather! (guest: current Mr Leather NL)”

2020-09-16 ~ Kinky Talks 08: “Flirt your kink” (How to say “Yes”?)

Consensual play is a lot about communication, asking, agreeing, and saying “no”, when needed. So a lot of the talk about “consent” is about exactly this: “how to say NO”…  That’s all good, but we’d rather hear you say “yes”, and make sure we let the play go and stay in a space we enjoy? SoContinue reading “2020-09-16 ~ Kinky Talks 08: “Flirt your kink” (How to say “Yes”?)”

2020-08-26 ~ Kinky Talks 07: “The Rubber Edition” (Adalberto and guests!)

This time a lighter topic: our favourite material, latex, will be in the spotlight!!! We are very excited to have many special guests joining us from all over the globe: from Florida to Amsterdam, via Italy and Denmark, and more! Wanna learn the best latex care tips? Talk about the latest trends in rubber outfits?Continue reading “2020-08-26 ~ Kinky Talks 07: “The Rubber Edition” (Adalberto and guests!)”

2020-08-12 ~ Kinky Talks 06: Our sex-life and COVID

COVID-19 has clearly had an impact on our sex lives. Maybe limited for those in monogamous relationships, but definitely, a big impact for those among us who (used to) share their sexual life with multiple partners. Either with regular buddies or with occasional hook-ups. Kinksters often talk about “risk-aware practices”. Can COVID be dealt withContinue reading “2020-08-12 ~ Kinky Talks 06: Our sex-life and COVID”

2020-07-29 ~ Kinky Talks 05: “The second closet”: aggression of your partner

It is the reason that some of us are hiding again: physical or psychological aggression of the partner…and we don’t want to spill the beans. Dirty laundry is not easy to communicate to our friends and especially when our partner is really remorseful about roughing you up in a nonconsensual way (even tho it happened before),Continue reading “2020-07-29 ~ Kinky Talks 05: “The second closet”: aggression of your partner”

2020-07-15 ~ Kinky Talks 04: Consent: a need or a hindrance?

Oops… I made a mistake in the email… I SHOULD have sent you to:2020-10-07 ~ Kinky Talks! Dom space, sub Space (guest: Spot) Below is the old talk we did earlier Consent is a hot topic these days… and I mean that in the sense of heated discussions (not so much hot sex anymore). Where ‘consent’Continue reading “2020-07-15 ~ Kinky Talks 04: Consent: a need or a hindrance?”

2020-06-20-24 ~ Kinky Talks 03: Long term Kinky Relationships?

Long term Relationships – BDSM relationships… Is it desirable? We do sometimes long for long-term steady relationships…We sometimes want hot ‘n steamy relationships…Does that exclude each other? Can we have both? Can we have all three? Long-term sweet love? Hot love? Conquering love? And is this the same for kinksters into BDSM as it isContinue reading “2020-06-20-24 ~ Kinky Talks 03: Long term Kinky Relationships?”

2020-06-10 ~ Kinky Talks 02: Do kinksters look for extremes?

KinkyTalks 02 Wednesday, 10th of June: 20:00 – 21:15 Do kinksters look for extremes? (by Adalberto & Hans) People do view us kinksters as being  a bit extreme sometimes. Does that have to do with ‘the media’ portraying us as ‘extreme’ so they can offer the readers a nice and voyeuristic view (and then distanceContinue reading “2020-06-10 ~ Kinky Talks 02: Do kinksters look for extremes?”

2020-05-27 ~ Kinky Talks 01: Kinky Boundaries

KinkyTalks 01 Wednesday, 27th of May: 20:00 – 21:15 Kinky Boundaries (by Adalberto & Hans) In kinky relationships boundaries are the thing to be crossed, it seems.Fantasies about “I want all of my boundaries crossed… (repeatedly please)” can make it harder to recognise what boundaries are actually good to keep upright. So let’s talk boundaries…Continue reading “2020-05-27 ~ Kinky Talks 01: Kinky Boundaries”