2023-01-04 ~ Kinky Talks 40: Drop, drop, drop




After the new year’s parties, after the first reality checks of our own new year’s resolutions, and after last year’s pandemic, it seemed kinda logical to come up with this Kinky Talk’s theme: “Drop drop drop!” 😉

Almost every sub AND most Doms know that feeling of “drop” two, or three days after great events, after intense BDSM sessions, or after altered mind states when they end. We all might feel “that drop…

@Sapphire and KinkAwareCoach Hans both have some ideas and thoughts about this. For sometimes “drop” can disrupt the life of subs, Doms, kinksters and queers. Sometimes “Drop” is something to literally take into account for what goes up, almost always has to come down. We don’t think that it is good òr bad (even tho the quality of the low can give away things the high you’ve experienced. But when you are in an unstable period or if you are battling serious depression, then taking some extra precautions could be clever. Because it does not gets to be ‘willed away’.

So let’s discuss: what are more realistic approaches? And let’s expect that any of us has all the ‘right’ answers because ‘drop’ is always personal, often relational and it’s not at all about “good or bad” or “weak or strong”

Drop It Like It’s Hot!

OK… meant different in the song 😉

Sapphire and I are interested in your thoughts and ideas and coping strategies. So, if you have any questions or ideas about “Drop” … and you don’t want to be visible in the zoom discussion? Let “Hans” know anonymously and I’ll steer the discussion towards your items without mentioning your name.

Registration is until 5 pm, and the email with the link will be sent by 7 pm at the latest.



Published by KinkindeRelatie

A Kink Aware and openminded (relationship) coach. That does not mean you have to talk about kink, but at least here you don't have to be silent about it.

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