2022-12-14 ~ Kinky Talks 39: Chemsex in the Scene


Chemsex is an easy subject to ignore… until you can’t ignore it anymore. That is why Adalberto and I like to highlight the fun, the risks, the slippery slope, the highs, the lows, the point of no return, the rock-bottom and that swampy sinking feeling when you notice you should really start to react to the effects that chems have on your (quality of) life.

We talk to David who has the guts to share his experience. From the beginning of the Corona period when he started using too many chems and almost went down (respect for anyone who regains control over their life!)
Of course, we can once again make the Chems itself all important, by talking absolute BS such as “just say NO”!

Right before the precipice, is where we change

Addiction creates its own importance. So let’s not add more importance to chems, by adding a “do not ever use” before whatever chems you are talking about. “Don’t drink”, “Don’t use drugs”… The War on Drugs has not been fruitful for over 50 years by now. So what is a more realistic approach? And let’s not pretend that we have all the ‘right’ answers because it is always a personal journey and it’s not about “right or wrong”

So we are really happy to talk to David who is willing to talk about his own journey. Not a complete journey so you can sit back and relax with the certainty that you will be OK. No, the uncertainty may well be a thing to embrace. But a personal quest for one’s personal quality of life.

Let’s talk about chemsex because coping with chems on the scene is a personal quest for one’s personal quality of life.

This won’t be a scripted talk, it will be a personal kinky talk. And I hope you will join and add your ideas to the discussion.

I hope we will be able to talk fruitful and without prejudice about Chemsex. Let’s exchange ideas and feel free to ask friends of yours to join in. Everybody is welcome even if they keep their name anonymous and their cameras turned off. We aim to help not judge. We aim to inform and search for answers that are useful for you in navigating our kinky scene.


So, if you have any questions or ideas about chemsex and/or therapy… let Hans know and I’ll steer discussion towards your items!

Registration is until 5 pm, and the email with the link will be sent by 7 pm at the latest.
We are not sure if -in this case- we will record any part of the talk, but we are interested to talk with you.



what do you want from life???
in love again…

Published by KinkindeRelatie

A Kink Aware and openminded (relationship) coach. That does not mean you have to talk about kink, but at least here you don't have to be silent about it.

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