2021-01-21 ~ Kinky Talks 14: What’s your favourite online fetish platform?

We got a cool panel of people to talk about why their favourite platforms

We started with the question where our first platforms were. And some of us our talk with our ‘confessions’ about what basically our 1st platforms in the world of kink were (sometimes fresh, so for some of us almost pre-internet).

Where did we meet, in our first fetish days online?


And then we thought: “Where do we meet nowadays? (and maybe we should create a bit of awareness about these global developments?”)

There are many platforms out there, some use FB’s secret groups, others twitter (where everything still seems to be possible), others use Fetlife, others rather video platforms like Xtube and OnlyFans. And then there are a plethora of dating apps Romeo etc… Fetish is available in many flavours… 🙂

Where do we meet now, these online days?


And we also asked a few people that lost their followers, that lost their online voice because their voice is apparently too gay, too kinky, too ‘fetishy’, or too sexy…

Fosta/sesta is (ab)used to search in the most unreasonable places for “all those poor abused women” (works great during elections, by the way) but is then abused for taking the economic basis from decent prostitution and other sex-work. It is even used as a ‘regulation’ of the internet and therefore porn sites are scrutinised and gay discussion groups are closed on facebook because… well basically because they are visible as gay.

What are we up agains, these sexnegative days?

So what is your favourite platform nowadays? And why…
Join the talk and maybe you will end up making yet another profile 😉

Social media is just a lavatory wall!

Stephen Fry

If you got questions or ideas: tell Hans or Adalberto.
See you next time!


Published by KinkindeRelatie

A Kink Aware and openminded (relationship) coach. That does not mean you have to talk about kink, but at least here you don't have to be silent about it.

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