2020-12-30 ~ Kinky Talks 13: New Year’s Resolutions (bucket- & fuckitlists)


Hindsight is 2020

frontsight is 2021?

Our talk together went (as my last name suggests) from East to West and from North to South and around the clock. We all shared our own ideas about the last year and plans for the next one.
Hope for the best… Plan for the best…

Days seemed to drag on like forever in 2020, while months seemed to
just evaporate that year.

Hans

As a non-native I noticed that the word resolution was interesting and that was a reason to talk about the different ‘peddles’ in our head (gas-peddle, brake-peddle) and the lach of off-switches in our brain. So for new-years resolutions there could be more use in looking at starting things than stopping ‘bad’ behaviours.

As you can see in the above start of our talks: What kan you allow yourself to help you stop “shoulding yourself” and stop ‘Stopping’.

Adalberto and I also were both most interested in the funky things that our group visitors had in mind to do in 2021. Both the spiritual awakenings and the kinky shit you want to cross off of your bucketlist. And we were curious to hear how people wanted to look back on 2020 in the years to come… What lessons did you learn from this? What were the things people would stop (fuckitlist).
Some of us were glad 2020 was over, some of us were glad with the possibilities it presented

Why postpone till next year…
what you are not ever going to fucking do anyways?

Hans


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A Kink Aware and openminded (relationship) coach. That does not mean you have to talk about kink, but at least here you don't have to be silent about it.

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