2020-06-24 ~ Long term Kinky Relationships? 003

A bit more local than last time: Dutchies, Italians and Germans 😀
Hans explained some ideas about relationship phases and things you might want to look into when one decides to have: a long term relation, a relation as a fetishist, a power exchange relationship, or a longterm power-exchange relationship and terminology from the world of moviemakers “suspension of disbelief”… and about “nested relationships” where you have a BDSM-relationship nested within a long-term relationship or a long-term BDSM-relationship next to a longterm vanilla relationship.

Tonight we heard people talk really honestly about their struggles to get kinky (and doing so in a wonderful way), their struggle to find a relationship that is kinky enough, about defining your fetish or gift to your partner.

In short, Adalberto and I were honoured by the honesty

In love, you are sure: “this is the one!”
After the “reality-check” you notice: “this is a 0,7 (tops)”
… and then you round the fucker up!

Dan Savage

Time flew by and we parted way after end-time.
Thanks again for the honesty.


Please go to our contact pages and spill your ideas and wishes:


“If my Master is lost, I’ll find him.
  I’ll lead him back to  himself, because to serve
  doesn’t always mean to follow.”

Joey W. Hill, in: Hostile Takeover

Manfred Mann’s Earth Band – “Blinded By The Light”

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A Kink Aware and openminded (relationship) coach. That does not mean you have to talk about kink, but at least here you don't have to be silent about it.

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